I know, but we all have to get used to change. I did not like Windows 7 for a while, but I got used to it.
If you are still pressed for time revert back to IE8 if you still have it on your machine, and only use IE9 when you are more relaxed, and have the time to work with it.
Trying to work or understand anything in an aggravated state only increases a persons dislike of it. In time you might wonder what all the fuss was about.