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[QUOTE=boohbah;2134793]Stefany93;2134673
How weird is it that I find bearded men with long hair and glasses hot?
Speaking about it, I should give my friend Eric a call...[/QUOTE said:
OMG!!!
Hey, pincushion, don't worry. I had one disastrous relationship after another, culminating in one that went completely wrong after 2 children. I had to leave, won't say any more, still hurts, always will.
Anyway, this is how I met the lady who is the centre of my world, 2 more great kids and 4 smashing G-kids:
I was alone but living with parents (anyone who has ever been in that situation, will know what I mean.) I picked up the local free paper and read the "Lonely Hearts" page. This, among other long, explicit messages, caught my eye -
"Lady, [agegiven here], wishes to meet gentleman."
I immediately thought, that says it all. Now, doesn't it? And she was indeed a lady, still is, always will be.
I wrote a long letter to the Box Number, we met. We never stopped talking and laughing that first night and we always find something to talk about. We can make each other laugh and we have stood by each other (and the offspring!) through some bad times and a lot of good times. Next year will be 25 years together and I want to wake up next to her forever.
It can happen my friend, just don't force it. And if you are reading the Lonely Hearts, or using Dating sites, look for the ones who don't try to tell you too much.
I must admit I do tend to put quite a bit of detail about myself on dating sites (makes up for not being entirely photogenic) and I do appreciate it from others too - I'm probably a bit fussy, lol. Apart from my age, I am in the best shape within that I have ever been so will take what comes. However, why is that the ones we fancy don't fancy us and vice-versa?
At least I know I can fall in love at first sight since it happened quite recently even if I let her slip from my grasp - too young I think anyway, lol.
When you stop looking for a mate so hard, one will drop into your life in an unexpected way and circumstance.
I never looked for any of my 3 ( ) wives, they drug me to the altar. Of course the first two drug me to court later.
Thats not really true. Talking from experiance. Doesnt matter if your looking for someone or not no one shows...
Now that just made me laugh Probably shuldnt laugh tho
And back on topic:
I think Golden nailed it you shuld do that :)
Best qoute ever:
Giving someone a second chance is like providing someone with another bullet after they missed shooting you the 1st time.