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  1. Posts : 134
    Windows 7 Ultimate
       #1

    A dating question


    Hello all,

    My ex - boyfriend wants to get back together with me. Since I do not want to get back together since he did a terrible thing and dumped me on my birthday I am thinking of turning him down by telling him I am already seeing someone so that he would not feel bad about this situation.

    Is this a good way, or I should just tell him the truth?

    Best Regards
    Stefany
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  2. Posts : 1,491
    Win7 Pro-64 Bit
       #2

    Lies beget more lies.
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  3. Posts : 19,383
    Windows 10 Pro x64 ; Xubuntu x64
       #3

    Wait till its his birthday, then phone him up and give him the proverbial middle-finger
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  4. Posts : 6,349
    Windows7 Pro 64bit SP-1; Windows XP Pro 32bit
       #4

    He had his chance and messed it up. His loss.

    Tell him straight up NEVER!!!

    If you take him back the next betrayal will be even worse.
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  5. Posts : 9,600
    Win 7 Ultimate 64 bit
       #5

    Just politely tell him you are not interested. No need to get ugly unless he doesn't understand the word "no". Telling a lie has a way of coming back and biting you from behind.
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  6. Posts : 1,218
    Windows 7 Ultimate x64 SP1
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    as a man who has experienced the old dumping situation a few times myself, i'd seriously consider not getting back with him, the fact of the matter is, if he's done it once, he'll do it again, and having got back with an ex once before, it's never going to be the same, you don't feel as connected as you once did, and it will just feel hollow.
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  7. Posts : 53,363
    Windows 10 Home x64
       #7

    I agree, your 1st instinct is best. But don't lie, just tell him no, you've moved on. A Guy
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  8. Posts : 134
    Windows 7 Ultimate
    Thread Starter
       #8

    ^^ Thank you very much for the replies everyone! Golden that will be a good idea but I can't wait until the 1t of December I would probably have forgotten him by then

    Hopalong X, that's the boost I needed, thank you.

    Lady and BrightBlessings, thank you very much!

    A guy and MrNeeds, great advice thank you.
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  9. Posts : 25,847
    Windows 10 Pro. 64/ version 1709 Windows 7 Pro/64
       #9

    Thank him for dumping you. Explain that you now know how much better life can be without him.
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  10. Posts : 4,549
    Windows 8 - 64-bit
       #10

    Never lie.. this way.. you never have to remember what you originally said to him.. makes life so much easier on all.
    It's his loss and your gain.. go for it !!!
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