A long time ago in New Zealand a New Zealand sailor lady invited me over for tea. Now I wasn't a tea drinker but was unable to say no. I still don't think much of tea. I do remember her serving the tea in her little sailor uniform, well she was wearing the hat and she was a true red head. I never did drink the tea.
When a lady invites me for tea I still go to this day. One must be courteous and thoughtful of others wishes.