That's a nice way of putting it, SGT, the old ball and chain
You're not the only one who's struggling - I am as well. Heck, I don't even know what I want for myself, let alone anybody else.
Ah well, I suppose it'll have to be a card (the relatively easy part, although for what they are they're expensive), a box of choccies and/or a CD/DVD.
I have been known to get them on Xmas eve.