To Airbot re:
Also should see the option from "Quick Links" at the top, and from clicking on the users name like was mentioned.
I have found the option thro Quick Links thank you.
To iseeuu re:
You must also "Enable Private Messaging" in "Edit Options" of your Control panel:
Sorry, now totally confused. Where do I find Control Panel?
These are the options I get when I open my Personal Profile.
Post a visitor message for poppa bear
Send a private message to poppa bear
Is the first option there for me to send a PM? Because if it is there's no option for the receiver's name etc.