try the FBI or the Military -- I certainly wouldn't want to get on the wrong side of THOSE ladies.
I think you'll find that being a "Grade A A--hole" is essentially "Gender Neutral".
However statistically the OP *could* be correct on the grounds that I would imagine a technical Forum like this one or say a Harley Davidson Bikers Forum would have a LOT more male members and therefore you'll get more "abusive" replies.
Try logging on to a Forum more geared to womens hobbies / pursuits etc then the reverse could be true.
The best way on the Internet is not to get involved -- if people don't want to get helped -- then don't waste your time.
On the whole this Forum is rather good - people seem to offer reasonable and usually good advice -- most of the people who I want to steer clear of are people who are quite agressive and DEMAND help having only made one or two posts - and NEVER offer any thanks or whatever to people who have solved their problems for them.
If a post or topic offends - just ignore. In extreme cases just report to a mod. This Forum seems extremely well moderated so I'm sure problems if they DO arise don't appear that often and are easily and quickly dealt with.