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Windows 7: I have no hope in finding someone :(

11 Mar 2010   #1

Windows 7 baby ! : D
I have no hope in finding someone :(

Today I decided to check out eHarmony in order to find someone with whom I can be happy and have a relationship with. Unfortunately after spending over an hour completing the "Personality Quiz", I received the following message, much to my dismal :

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Needless to say I feel like there's no hope for me

Unfortunately due to my rather ugly looks and the fact that I suffer from social anxiety, finding someone is difficult, If not impossible for me. I'm 20 and have never been in a relationship with a girl before.

For those who have someone in their life, what does it feel like to have someone who you can love and know come home to after a long day etc ?



I apologize If I'm being negative and pessimistic, I'm just a sad individual, that's all.

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11 Mar 2010   #2

Windows 7 x64 Ultimate

Hmm, I was too busy with computers and such to even look up to see I was alone till I was about 28. Didn't get married till 32. Things don't necessarly have to happen right away...
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11 Mar 2010   #3
Phone Man

Windows 8.1 Pro w/Media Center 64bit, Windows 7 HP 64bit

Get a cute dog. They are chic magnets.
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12 Mar 2010   #4
Tarka Dal


Ugliness is only a perception. I'm not that handsome myself but I found a real pretty wife, who loves me dearly and the same can happen for you! The key to being likeable and to get a woman is to relax with yourself and look for fun in your life. By this I don't mean make an idiot of yourself. Best of luck you've got years to go yet. I didn't find 'the one' until i was 36...

P.S :Those sites are just for sex magnets!
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12 Mar 2010   #5
Microsoft MVP

64-bit Windows 10 Pro

Hello Jordan,

I wouldn't stress over it. It's always when you least expect it and not looking is when you meet the right person. You're so young right now and have plenty of time to meet Mrs. Right. When you rush it, you end up meeting Mrs. Wrong.

For now, I would just say take care of yourself and get things (ex: financial, home, etc...) planed out and in order for your future.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Each person has their own definition of this, so do not concern yourself about what "you" think you may look. If they don't like you for who you are, then kick them to the curb. It's their loss.
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12 Mar 2010   #6

windows 7 ultimate 64 bit,Windows 7 ultimate 32 bit,Windows XP sp3 home

start loving comfortable with yourself....a simple change in perception often brings in great changes...people love you cause you are beautiful or you are beautiful because people love you....its just a matter of how you look at things
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12 Mar 2010   #7

Windows 7 Ultimate x64, Mint 9

All my relationships started as being friends.
Perhaps this made it harder to date, or easier, I don't know. But it is a good way to find out if someone really likes you, and you really like them before you commit to a date.
If you decide you don't want to date her, you still have a (hopefully) good friend that you can hang out with, without being overly awkward.

Perhaps this is easier to achieve in a school setting, but its worked for me.

(The one time I dated a girl without getting to really know her it died in about a week, though that could just have been her)

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12 Mar 2010   #8

Windows 8 Pro

Sometimes when you're single all you want is to be with someone.

Sometimes when you're in a relationship, you don't wan't to be in one.

Just try to enjoy life as it comes, and don't worry so much about it.
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12 Mar 2010   #9

Windows 7 baby ! : D

Quote   Quote: Originally Posted by electrotune1200 View Post
Sometimes when you're single all you want is to be with someone.

Sometimes when you're in a relationship, you don't wan't to be in one.
lol thanks for that humor and thanks everyone. And thanks Brink for those encouraging words, no wonder you're the admin
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12 Mar 2010   #10

Win 7 Ultimate 64-bit SP1 (desktop)

Jordan, at your age, try to relax, you have all the time in the world.

Remember, they'll unconsciously pick up on how you feel about if you're doubting yourself, they'll pick up on that.

So get your "shiznit" together....whether it means working out to build up your confidence, or spending time sprucing up your house/car/apartment, or getting some money saved up, if you feel good about yourself and where you're at, the ladies will come to you sooner or later....a famous man once said, "Confidence, is very sexy!"
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