Ok well since no one helped I didi it myself
and now I will give to you my lessons learned.
First off FreeSSH has a problem when installed as a service on Windows 7 (x64 at least) while it runs you will never be able to login. Access Denied will always happen.
However if you do not install it as a service it will run and you can login fine. I didn't like that option so I moved on..
What i found and the pickings are pretty slim in the free category especially for Windows 7 was Copssh here is the link for the download site. Download | ITeF!x
Once you download this run it as administrator and accept the default settings. It will than prompt you to all the settings you would like to use.
Once done you will need to manual setup users through the Copssh folder in the Start menu. (hint if you want to add an account that is not YOURS) just type in in over the drop down.
Once done reboot and yours good to go. With this application I can now Tunnel from work securly through my home PC.
there is a few limitations to this build as it will install a linux style interface for the session so using windows 7 commands like copy etc wount work. Im using this for strickly tunneling and it works perfect on x64 Windows 7.
So After research other alternatives