Well 1st off , sorry if i sounded like an ass , didnt mean to .
Looked in msconfig , but didnt know what it was called ( like task mang search ) so didnt help .
Seemed to be caused by failed backup , screwed a few things up actually , and is still showing in Action Center as in progress ....
After a couple reboots all is back to normal ( widget/gadget thing is called " Wireless Console " ) and is back in regular position , except action center notification still showing in backup in progress , but already finished on alternate drive. So i know thats alright