How to lower the average ping?

Hey all,

i have a little problem...
in online games like COD MW3 and Counter Strike 1.6 and online softwares like Ventrilo i have the higest ping on the server. i dont mean i have a 150-300 ping.
its seems like i have 5 ping but listed i have 25 ping... And all others have 5-15 ping... i have 20-30 ping... its good i feeling like i have a 5 ping but how to lower this ping? i have a new computer with graphic card - 6770! very good and my computer run this games with no any problem. and my internet speed is 10Mega byte.
i want a ping like the others... 5 ping or 10 ping... beautiful ping =]

thank you advance

there isnt way to lower the average ping? to 5-15 ping.
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Not really, no. It depends on the location of the servers. They could be in different countries, your internet has to travel to the other country to connect to that server.

Really not true. I and all my friends playing in israel servers (israel is our location) and I have a friend who lives next to me and has less than 10 ping me when we playing in the same server. and he have same internet speed like my. I think i need to change the network settings on my computer.

There isn't another way without comparing? something like disable unused functions on network settings... like QoS and others...

Dunno why you're that concerned about it. 25 ping compared to 10 is hardly a big jump at all. If it were 125 ping, that'd be different.

You can explain me how to lower my average ping (25 ping) to 10? with disabling features?