So I noticed that my PC wasn't using my full amount of RAM which is 4gb.. it is only using 3.3gb.
So i went onto MSconfig and the maximum memory tab i checked it. it wanted me to restart my pc, which i did but when it restarted.. it said hardware or program failure occured, and i had to options try to load in normal mode or load up repair which i did.
And it went to normal mode.. it loaded up.. very very slowly then i had a little message saying windows didn't load properly on the desktop. now nothing will load.
So now im stuck in safe mode until i can fix it.