Thanks folk. BT should be ringing me back early this morning to discuss the results after having installed their software. That should be interesting
Will I ditch them? After this well I am seriously considering doing so. I also have to consider that one of my mobiles is with them and the contract is due up in November (thats already going because of other problems). So I may ditch the lot all at the same time. Any recommendations? With my daughter moving home at the moment I shall have to wait until I have a little more time to myself to think more on the subject.
Why dont I use Outlook? The simple answer is laziness. And of course BT store all my mail on their server saving me space

I do however have access to my mail through a different route - MS Live.
Im also considering putting the fiasco in the hands of BT's bosses seeing what excuse they come up with.