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I see the Give me updates for Microsoft products and check for optional Microsoft Software when I update Windows setting in your second screenshot, so I'm not sure what you mean by it's not there.
When you click on the Find out more link in your first screenshot it will take you to the Microsoft update site, and you will usually need to check a box there to have it install an update for your Windows Update. It's best to do this in Internet Explorer.