somewhat i succeded. the solution was not on nvidia tab. i created multiple unique resolutions to the secondary monitor (TV). then on display window i changed the 'standard monitor' to 'standard tv'. and on that very same display tab there's a special button, where i could use the unique resolutions and frequencies created in nvidia setup.
but the real trick was 59-60Hz. altought my tv is 100hz, it didn't work on 100 (or 50)Hz. but on 60..
only 640x480@60Hz was good, but i'm still trying..
thx anyway