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I'm going to make a wild guess here and say that you probably didn't build this yourself.
Is it a laptop or desktop? Who made it? What is the model number?
Look all over the case for a sticker or a logo and tell us what it says. The reason why knowing will help us is that once we know what motherboard the RAM is running in it will be easier to find potential problems with your settings so we can help you fix it. The fact that Windows is only seeing 3GB of your 6GB of RAM likely means that something is not in the right place.
One final question: Did you add RAM since you bought it and if so, how much was in there before? :)