Hi
MorsePacific,
As to your IRQ conflict: Do you have a sound card installed? If you do, that might be your issue? I'm not sure if the issue has been resolved in Windows 7, but in prior versions of Windows, installing the OS with your sound card could create an IRQ conflict as the sound card would be given the same IRQ as the graphics card. The easy way around this is to simply install Windows without the sound card present; only install the sound card after Windows is up and running. If you do it this way, you can be assured that Windows will give the two cards their own unique IRQ.
As to your power supply: Yes, card makers recommend PSU's of a certain wattage; however, to power a modern graphics card, watts don't matter, amps are all that matters. Specifically, high amperage on the +12 volt rail... which powers most of today's modern computers. Ideally, you want high amperage on a single rail... but, whatever gets the job done, as long as it's done right, will work too. Find one that has at least 50 amps on the +12 volt rail and you'll be fine with that card.