When you are in the DM you can go upto the menu bar>View and select the show all hidden devices option which may then show the drive in the DM. It could also be something as simple as enabling USB support in the bios setup you need to take care of if the drive otherwise seems to be working normally.
The one oddity I ran into with any usb devices which can leave you blind sided at times is the brand! I found that one out with flash drives where a better brand of drive simply would not be recognized and work on an old XP case. Put in another brand and you're all set! Try two other brands and no go once again.
All flash drives were in perfect working order and the usb ports were all good. You could be running into something very similar with the make of usb optical drive you have there where you may find the next brand works like a champ. I suspect that while the ports and drive all seem good just like the flash drives were the draw on the port itself or what the port is supplying could be another thing you are running into with that particular laptop.
In other words either the drive is pulling the port down on that laptop or the port is inadequate for the drive. It's taking power alright just a little too much maybe? Or you might have to actually go into the Control Panel>Devices and Printers to select "add a device" from the File drop down options there to see Windows install the drive for you to then be made available. Then you would Windows auto search for the
drivers it needs.