update:
installed win 7 as linpus linux was terrible (well, probable i'm terrible with linux)
installed it with an old crt monitor, then moved it back into the bedroom and hooked it up through HDMI, startd with no problems with display, well untill i get the right res for viewing from bed.
only problem was the wifi, it didn't work from the start (linux) got it going with win 7, but it was crap, ended up using a belkin wirelessg adaptor, but i'll be running an ethernet cable to it soon!
i also didn't delete the linux partition, just in case it went faulty, i can hopefully uninstall Windows 7 and send back, if after a year it ok, i'll delete the partition and add it to windows (well, hopefully)