Thank you everyone for your ideas. I'm going to have a go with EasyBCD

first, (legs and arms and fingers crossed) (hope I'm not getting in too deep for my level of knowledge. They also have a really good programme called iReboot that will make my life much easier too. Now if I could only solve my keyboard and mouse problem I wouldnt need to do any of this, its really odd Monday it was fine, normal shutdown, Thuesday morning nothing, if I dissconnect the USB Mouse and Keyboard and plugged another one I have into the mauve connector the mobo says "keyboard missing" or not detected" cant remember which. cant believe its the battery, cant check the battery, so dont want to re-set the bios by removing battery and altering the bios settings just incase its something else and I screw up big time, otherwise a perfectly ok system.
anyway thanks again for your suggestions, its a lonely old world out here when you have problems so I'm very grateful for your help.