remote desktop and access, and server / client nightmare
I am having a very frustrating problem with unauthorized and silent/secret access of my computer. No matter what operating system I install, I am always setup as a client, and someone immediately gains access and control over my entire system. I become unable and authorized to make changes that will prevent or stop this access. I have tried making a windows 7 lite version myself, but either I do not eliminate the correct services or features that I need to, or I eliminate too much and the system does not work correctly or install at all. I do not know anything about group policy, or the snap ins, or the management console, where I know is the solution. I have tried, but while I make changes, they are reverted immediately back, and I am locked out, or lose access to those settings, or my system is shutdown remotely and it locks up, or I screw the system up and it won't boot. I am hoping someone here knows how to eliminate all possibilities, back doors, tunnels, pipes, blue tooth access, remote access, remote assistance, and or any and all third party access to my machine etc. that will permanently disallow and deny any and all remote access, remote desktop, remote assistance, Bluetooth access to my pc except for myself- one user, one log in. I hope this is the correct place to request that sort of thing on here. Or if there is one setting I can change, or service/process I can change, disable or eliminate, to stop this once and forever, I would be greatly appreciative. When I get to a place or setting I know will help, I never have the access privileges, it is locked, or my "network administrator", is the only one who can access that. I connect to the internet via Ethernet, tried kaspersky and commodo internet security, disabling wireless and Bluetooth, deleting and disable all services I am able to, stopping the restarting of those services and processes, uncheck all remote access and assistance, tried all windows versions even home basic- which is not supposed to remote ability.. I think. The update readiness tool ask me to install a hotfix that is related to the security flaw with remote assistance, but every attempt I make to download and install it, my system magically freezes up and I am thwarted. I have tried that like 20 times, and it is like there is a wizard outside my office at home that is the best damn defense and defender I have ever seen. Every attempt I make to block access and regain control over my system it is blocked, stalled, corrupted or reversed to where nothing I do ever makes any headway that will shake this person camped on my computer and access to the internet and all my files, passwords, communications, web activities etc. No matter what I do, install, change, I am always the client, on some sort of server configuration where I am bound by rules and settings that I can never change, see, or know what and where they are. I have fought and tried for three months, changed computers 3 times, and within a day, I can tell my system is compromised. When it happens, I feel sick to my stomach, and it feels like whatever I attempt, this person is always one step ahead of me. It seems like no matter what I change, my system always reverts back to a place where I have no control, or either I change it so much I brick it. I will not give up. Any and all suggestions, or advice is greatly appreciated and much needed. I am attaching some documents of a few belarc system sheets, a list of the services at one sitting I deleted, disabled, a network analysis snapshot of my system that shows the remote access, a system information file from comodo internet security that has all kinds of info about my system.. A lot of the information in the documents I do not understand, but I thought I would try to educate myself, and for someone that is sharper than me at this, I think will help shed light on the goings on in my system. Thanks and rock on. If this is in the wrong area of the forum, or is an inappropriate request, I apologize in advance.