I already updated my driver
and yesterday i gave it one more try. AND..........with succes. I took a driver from toshiba sit ( which i already tried btw) . My speed with copying went from 800Kb/s to 9,6 Mb/s. Although i find it not enough it's much better.it was a driver vista 32bit.
Ofcourse i set all the changes which i made to properties of nic to normal and speed remains 9,6 Mb/s.
Now i'm gonna try to get it working with Windows 7 64 bit and a vista 64 driver from toshiba.
btw i find it strange that a driver from realtek themself is not working propperly and the one from toshiba works.
I'll appreciate your help!! THX
i'll keep you all posted !!
As soon as i finish ( hopefully without problems ) i'll link to the drivers
i used so someone else can benefit too