I'm an a**. Sorry Verizon - it isn't your fault. I missed a step in my testing and I feel pretty stupid. Sorry Derek.
When I tested the laptop on the wired side (wired / wired) I screwed up and still connected to the wrong machine. In the process, confirming (and reconfirming in a second test) that I can connect to a homegroup from wired to wireless. And the two devices on the wired side cannot connect to each other. So, I've isolated this to the desktop (win 7 pro). I've eliminated the wireless/wired issue.
I've updated the
driver on the nic card.
Sorry for being an a**. Sorry again Derek. I've deleted the two posts about my 'troubles' with Verizon.