1) The case is a great choice. Personally only ever dealt with the full tower but i'd guess the midtower will be just as great.
2)I'd say give the fan a chance and if not a future upgrade can always be fun. The case having great airflow so if anything just turn up the speakers

3)I will agree that on board video will probably do you right for displaying hd video content. That will probably be the time you hear your fans kick on though. If anything squeaking by with a cheap 50 dollar card could be an alternative and then you will have a separate cooling for your graphics but still may be overkill for what you describe.
4) I reckon i'd agree with tw33k
5)Havent really used any desktop wireless i have a good blend of wired and wireless but desktops are all wired so i'll opt out of a real answer here
6) i'd say just plug in what ever you are getting to psu calc like
Neweggs which spit out 269 w so a good 400-500w power supply will bemore than enough. I'll agree anything over 500 should keep ya happy for a few years and wouldn't need an upgrade til you need a new computer.
Good luck