Ok it is resolved
Since this was not showing in process explorer but was visible in the nonpaged pool, it had to be closer to the OS or the
drivers.
If it had been a
driver, the cm44 would have appeared in searching the tag in %Systemroot%\System32\
Drivers directory; so it had to be something related to OS.
The only apps that I replaced from the default OS functions were: defrag and the menu.
It was the later that caused the problem, I was using VistaStartMenu 3.60 and as soon as I deactivate it then the memory went back to normal. Did the update to version 3.67 and everything is fine. I used that apps for a long time with no prob, so that must be am isolate issue.
-soso