Odd, it should be the same other than the tree view being slightly different on mine for the reason I explained earlier.
You don't have a folder with your user name under "Desktop" then below "Libraries" and above "Computer?"
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EDIT: I understand the dilemma now and, also, my inability to relate to what you have been telling me - sorry.
When I set my views as such:
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I see why you couldn't find the AppData folder. Show your hidden files but I recommend you leave"Hide protected operating system files" checked.
I guess I've never ran Windows without first going in and selecting "Show hidden files, folders and drives"