Okay, after going through some forums and picking several tips from other problems.. I got this to work.. so far..
I opened up the Patchmix DSP and in the ASIO INPUT column I Inserted a SEND - OUTPUT ASIO/WAVE and then I also Downloaded and Installed ASIO4ALL v.2 and made sure that all my software used it.. So far it working... Don't know why the ASIO software that came with the card doesn't work, but oh well...
Oh.. I don't really want to change my DAW, It's just that I seem to have had alot of issues over the years and thought maybe a change would do me good.

Read some about Cakewalk not being the most friendly to communicate with Windows or some cards and stuff like that.. No matter.. I have what I need for now

Gonna leave this up in case someone else has similar issue...
LIV (MDR).. started posting some beginner compilations on AUDIOFARM.org
Now with a new system Maybe I can rip out some nicer sounding stuff. look for MDR