Hi, njdavid. Welcome to SevenForums.
Seeing as how there is no way of knowing if you are indeed the grandparent or a child attempting to override installed parental controls, it would be inappropriate for anyone to attempt to provide a work-around.
I suggest leaving this issue to Mom and Dad to work out. For certain maintenance functions (i.e., installing Service Packs or installing antivirus software upgrades) requiring approval of the UAC elevation prompt, Dad will either need to provide Mom with the password or the laptop will have to be shipped to Dad for updating.