Thanks i have changed that and it doesn't apply to 3D Max here is the text i have changed which i think is all the text in Windows & Caption Buttons.
Windows & Caption Buttons > Aero > DWM Window > Frames > Window > Top > Active
Windows & Caption Buttons > Aero > DWM Window > Frames > Window > Top > Inactive
Windows & Caption Buttons > Aero > DWM Window > Frames > Window > Top > MaxActive
Windows & Caption Buttons > Aero > DWM Window > Frames > Window > Top > MaxInactive
Windows & Caption Buttons > Aero > Window > Frames > Window > Top > Active
Windows & Caption Buttons > Aero > Window > Frames > Window > Top > Inactive