Hi pauljscott2003, welcome to 7F!
Take a look at this thread: Why does Windows 7 constantly update without asking me, regardless of - Microsoft Community
It hints at some other MS products that may be affecting your settings.
Do you have any that are listed installed on your machine?
And in accordance with Susan Bradley's suggestion at the above link:
First off double check that the settings are still download but do not install.
Next, send me your windowsupdate.log from c:\windows\windowsupdate.log
You can post them here, I can't read them efficiently, but we might be able to get NoelDP to.
Just copy/paste windowsupdate.log into the Start/Search box, if you see two, attach them both as .zip files to your next post, and we will see what we can find out.