graphics card crashing, drivers installed and reinstalled windows same

Skip the boot disc step for now. It's not that essential as of yet. Was your board replaced, was it repaired, or was it determined that the board is fine?

I'm assuming it was repaired I didn't get any word of what was done to it. It was sent back to me. It still had all the same numbers on it so I'm assuming that it was repaired or just sent back and not replaced.

I have done the memtest part of the last thing you posted for me to do 11 passes of the memory and no errors

Alright, looks good. Proceed with the next steps. :)

Ok windows live scan done. Ran extended tests with speedfan for HDD to problems there either.

I assume you meant to say there were no problems. Proceed to remove all but the essential hardware in step 5. Instead of booting from a floppy, there are DOS CD tools. I would recommend SeaTools for DOS and see if you can get that to start.

Ok so it runs but I don't know where to go from there. I was 5 when I used dos last...

Just getting it to run was all that was necessary. Proceed to the next steps. :)

Ok I've gotten windows to boot up but now it's worse than it was before it crashes quicker than it was before

What do you currently have within the system in terms of hardware?