I agree with the others just tell him the truth and move on. Lying will only make him feel he still has a chance so he'll keep trying, just tell him straight, sorry but you don't want to get back with him, thank you for asking but the answer has to be no.
Tell him the truth... that you don't wanna be with him anymore coz he did terrible thing... but by telling him the truth he'll try to convince with all the stories like it was a mistake and i did terrible thing i regret im so sorry babe plz give me one more chance and all those stories that'll puzzle you for a while like most of the times happen to a lot of people... so i guess you should just mix it up i mean truth + lie for a massive tackleyeah you're seeing somebody and a bit more fake story if u know what i mean and the rest is upto u missy.... may help you imo
Thank you very much for the reply everyone! I did indeed told him the truth like your guys suggested but he still insists and mails me every day. I hope his enthusiasm will cool off when I stop replying his messages.
Step.. hi..... if he keeps up with the e-mail.. BLOCK him from your mail account &
Remove him from your addresses..
Good luck !!
Blocking him and ignoring his emails are not a good idea. It a good idea to be aware of what he says in case he makes any threats against you. Just look at the emails but do not ever reply. If he does threaten you or threatens to harm himself, forward the email to the authorities. If his present persistence graduates to calling you or seeing you in person, you may have to get a restraining order against him.
Tell him that he was totally forgiven. But for the mistake he made, it will never be forgotten. Think he will understand that?
Tell him the truth.... So that he can change himself by knowing how you hated him and how you felt that day...
^^ Thank you again for the replies everyone! I stopped answering his messages and he also stopped sending me any. Let's hope this lull will be forever
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