A dating question

Stefany93 said:

^^ Thank you again for the replies everyone! I stopped answering his messages and he also stopped sending me any. Let's hope this lull will be forever

Well, that's a good news. Are you happy now?

Bertison said:

Ask yourself these questions: do you have any feelings for him now? Do you have any trust in him? Any confidence that he will hurt you again? If the answers are all in the negative, start the forgetting process and learn from the experience, use it to remember what some guys can be like.

I have a daughter who was married to someone like that. Despite all the information I gave her about him, she refused to believe it. When he eventually left her and my grandson to live with and then marry someone else, she was absolutely heartbroken. Now he has been married and divorced twice and is living with a much younger (and less attractive) woman. My daughter has a much better partner, a beautiful daughter, great job, happier life.

But you may have spared yourself an experience something like my daughter's. Have a great life and understand that there are better men out there.

I am really sorry for what happened to your daughter! Poor girl! But I am happy she is happy now! My father also told me not to get back together with that guy and now from your post I am sure he is right.

To answer the questions of the others, I already mourned for that guy when he left me on my Bday for a week but I think today I fully recovered since I went on a date with another guy. Yes, the date lasted only 15 minutes before he 'ran away' so to say, but hey, it was worth it, I got over the previous guy!

im intrigued stefany, what happened,

I have no idea We had this perfectly normal conversation you know, I started talking how before I get to Amsterdam I was in Rotterdam and stuff like that when suddenly he drank his coffee and said he had to go.

I think one of the reasons might be because I always blush very much when I am on dates. I just can't help it

Kevin Ismail said:

Steph, you might want to read this from Fit and Healths about 10 First day Tips

I don't know Kevin, all these dating advices just don't seem to work. On my very first date last year I broke all the so called 'rules' of a first date without me knowing them and I went on a second date with the same guy afterwards. Now that I know all the tips and rules they don't help much.

Stefany93 said:

Kevin Ismail said:

Steph, you might want to read this from Fit and Healths about 10 First day Tips

I don't know Kevin, all these dating advices just don't seem to work. On my very first date last year I broke all the so called 'rules' of a first date without me knowing them and I went on a second date with the same guy afterwards. Now that I know all the tips and rules they don't help much.

Well at least you have age on your side Stefany. I'm at the other end of the spectrum and since I still find younger females as attractive as I ever did and I am looking for a companion I do realise the problems involved. I have recently overcome a lifetime of shyness but I fear rather too late.