Windows 7 fallout 3, new game crash. Please help

It says it found 61 programs, not one is fallout 3, i tryed to open the fallout 3 folder with the uninstaller but its not working

I just got it, and i am back to the new game crash, so i will do all the patching, and fixs and give an update

I uninstalled fallout 3, it works again....by that i mean it crashes at the new game. I updated the game, installed the patch, disable windows live. I modified the files. There are a few problems that i want to by careful around. For the error patch, i have to play the data file in the fallout folder, in order to do that i need to replace the old file, i don't want to screw everything up again.
The 3GD enabler is giving me problems again, the first time it said i did not copy the .exe to the folder, now there i no Fallout .exe in my folder.
last i am posting the Fallout ini file to make sure it is perfect.

I did everything, i got the 3gb working but i am not sure how to opperiate it, i pressed A but nothing happened. It still crashes, but i think it crashes because its about to load the intro or something. I think i am getting close to making it work. but not sure.

Well i did everything and still no luck

still after i pressed new game, iget a 6 second loading screen, and i get the impression its about to play the intro, but then it crashes.