Windows 7 internet games frustration

1.Every time I play a game of checkers,Spades..etc the the other person always quits on me (usually when they are losing) is there any way to stop this from happening or to block these people who do it repeatedly from playing.

2. (Select a message to send) why can't we type our own messages?

3.Can't play with the same player?(play again) it automatically searches for another player.

I know these games aren't that great but I enjoy playing a game from time to time I thought they would have fixed these things by now.

Yes.
1. Microsoft is currently working on a USB/120V device that attaches to your wrist and senses your pulse. If the other person quits the game, the device will administer a 120V shock lasting 2 minutes. Alternatively, if the device senses that the wrist monitor has been removed, it will permanently deactivate Windows 7 and force you to buy a new license.
2. You can’t type your own message because Microsoft does not want you to.
3. See #2.
If anyone else has more information on Microsoft’s plans for the DNQ (Do Not Quit) device, please feel free to contribute.
Cheers!

I am sorry... that's just to funny!!!

Seriously though sprite, those are the fact and you either has to take'm or leave'm... I do not believe you'll find a satisfactory answer.