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You can change Update settings at Control Panel>Windows Updates>Change Settings to Download But Let Me Decide for as long as it takes to get all of them installed, however the present problem is that they'll continue to install Important ones on their own via the Shutdown button queue. What's important is that you get them all installed including Optional so just be patient and watch the Shutdown button until no more Updates are offered. Then set it to Automatic.
You do not want to ignore Windows Updates because the OS is heavily patched without a SP2 and depends on them for proper safe functioning including for programs, drivers and security.