Win7 defragmenter analyzes SSD frequently

To my knowledge no writing occurs during the analyzing process, except perhaps to the log. It also is not analyzing the entire disk it's a very brief check and completes in a matter of seconds. (at least on my system) I can't believe it's really that much of a hard hitter to lifespan.
Obviously every byte of read and write brings you one less to your last before decay, that has always been true of any type of drive or disk though.

I am simply not understanding why people freak out about it so much more with ssd's than they did with mechanicals.

I'm not freaking out, it's not my computer. When one does analyze the defrag percent what has been accomplished?

it can be a measure of overall drive activity and use actually. I'll agree with you that overall it's fairly useless and there is likely a way to prevent it by looking through the task scheduler.

BTW SSD reads do not deplete it's lifetime. At least not like writes do. Your SSD is read from probably 10,000 times as much as it is written to. Reads do not cause "wear" like writes do.

Watching the fragment value go down is likely due to the SSDs internal garbage collection at work :)

I'm thinking Trim is there for a reason. How you would check and see if it works properly, who knows. I just use Intel Tool Box.

I have made that check before and got a zero (0). Just did it again and got zero (0) again. To my way of thinking Trim is the defrag for SSD's.

I understand I have Trim working but I don't really know how good it works. That what I mean by who knows. When you defrag a hard drive a lot of times you can see with your own eyes that things are faster. A SSD is so fast anyway I don't know if one would know. That's what I mean by who knows. Back to the OP's question.
If you want to analyze your SSD do it. If you want to defrag your SSD, do it. The manufactures of all SSD that I have looked into recommend not doing it.
Have a nice day.