Best way to stay secure on Windows 7?

It appears to me that you need to ask someone to help you do this.
It is simple to do if you have a decent amount of computer knowledge.
Trying to walk you through it from here would be VERY time consuming.

i guess if i cant figure out how to use the simplix program then i will use ESUbypass

So if you run simplex it's safe to be on the internet to any website, or as safe as it can be? Thanks, Mike

Absolutely NO, for a wide variety of reasons.
​Most important, the very first question you don't do is, safe against what, exactly?
Just because you installed something don't makes you invulnerable to bad things out there.