Can you list your system specs in the 'My System Specs' in the lower left in any of your posts.
This will let everyone find your specs without searching through the thread.
What CPU cooler do you have?
Have you checked that it is tight?
If you apply not enough thermal paste your CPU will run hot.
If you apply too much thermal paste your CPU will run hot, it's possible that if there is too much paste and the CPU gets hot the paste can run out the sides and cause the CPU to be difficult to remove.
Guide for applying thermal paste
Most AMD CPUs temps I've seen have been very low, even OC'ed, a couple deg C above ambient temp at idle is common.
There are threads in various sites that mention heat issues due to too high CPU voltage, we might need to address this also.
What case do you have?
How many case fans?
Have you cleaned it?
Are there any cables obstructing the air flow?
How many fans on the CPU cooler?
Which direction is the fan blowing?
We need to findout what the 'CPU NB VID Control' voltage is set at, this will likely need to be bumped up by a slight increase to help RAM stability.
Bump it by the smallest amount, +0.025v, it should give you the total voltage reading, post it here.