Welcome to Seven Forums, Homey.
I had the same sort of frustration with WLM. The biggest discovery, not mentioned at the time in the instructions, was the "Menu" toolbar (upper right side pulldown for menues). Without that, things are really hard.
If you have some specifics of things that you want to see/do, I'll fire up the system that uses WLM and we'll see if we can't make it a bit more like XP.

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OE was fun, easy and a breeze to use, did everything I ever wanted, WLM just plain sucks, I can not find the things I/(we) used to have.
The options I had found (thought I did) made some changes as to DELETE mail on exit, check spelling before sending, all the things you could do in OE, well after checking them and saving, none worked.
OE folders I could set say a "Friends" folder then direct mail from others to a Sub Folders under Friends, not so in WLM.
I had a OE backup program, but wont work here so going to try your suggestion about the back up program on the XP box then save to flash drive, install the back up here and see if it will recover the info.
Personally I find WLM to be a PIA, but like with anything new one must try and do what one can and learn and lean from others, some of the things I read about in the HELP files like sending Photo, it did not look like what I had?
Thanks for the input and your help!
One other thing I notices was in OE I could Insert a picture or graphic into the email I do not see that feature available in WLM, I used that a lot,