Today is the last chance to get everything ready for my son's wedding tomorrow.
Clothing & footwear sorted, but the speach..........can't get my head around it.
Does the groom's father need to make a speach or did you volunteer?
The groom is my son, hence i have to write a
speech(spelt wrong before)

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There is a correct method of who does what and when. The bride's father goes first, followed by the groom's father (me). Quite a few others follow, with the groom being the last one on the floor. After that it's easy.
Get inebriated.
Since it is now the next day here in Aus, i can say, the speech for
today is actually coming along quite well. The Handbrake is putting the feminine touches to it, as we speak.