ok I restarted pc again, still nothing on Bluetooth showing up... I tried reinstalling Bluetooth driver, still says to activate it. when I run a diagnostic test from the dell support website, this is what it says:
on the Bluetooth port:
We are unable to find the selected device. The device driver for your selected diagnostic is either not installed or installed incorrectly.Please ensure your device is enabled through your device manager or go to Drivers and Downloads to install the latest driver.
ok still nothing works, so I guess ill just have to buy a Bluetooth adapter, since I cant figure out if this one has one already in it or not.. thanks for all your help : )