depending on what the program is, you could write a simple batch script to do a "net stop"
Are you "DISABLING" and "ENABLING" from the Services window?
if so you can do this by following these instructions:
...............Also, if you give us the name of the Service, we could create these for you.
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These instructions are a little technical. If you are uncomfortable doing this or have any confusion, just post the service name and we can create the .bat files needed.
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right click on Desktop
click on New
Click on Text Document
type in
net stop "service name"
end
Save the file as "StopRealtek.bat"
You can also then create a StartRealtek batch file by:
Copy the first bat file and rename to "StartRealtek.bat"
Then right-click the file and Choose Edit or Open With - Notepad
Change the text to "net start" instead of "net stop"
Here is a good resource for explanation of this:
Net stop: Management Services