hahaha!!!!
i actually found the solution a week or so ago.
i changed back to xp. not one disconnection. i have been downloading, how can i say, gentlemans material via a subscription usenet at very heavy loads and fast rates and i currently have 60 hours continuous connection. and before that prob the same again. pc reboot was reason for disconnection.
so the problem is without doubt, windows 7 related. wíth that i could have 3 or 4 disconnects in one night!!!!
i have 2 drives on this pc, one with xp and one with win7. i can decide at bios which one to boot with.
i have issues with internet disconnects and i have 2 old pieces of software that will run with xp but wont run with win7.
so for now win7 gets the thumbs down and i wouldnt recommend it to anyone.
i will stay tuned in for a fix.