I'm sorry that I can't help you further on this. I don't have any hands-on experience with sharing my internet connection.
It is odd that it would tell you "waiting for users"; it is as if your laptop is actively looking for devices that want to connect. All of my experience with wifi hotspots has been that a wifi hotspot never actively looks for devices that want to connect; it simply waits passively for devices which want to connect; the device wanting to connect is what is actively seeking the connection.
If this was Bluetooth, then I would not be surprised with either the host or the device actively seeking the connection; you can work it either way with Bluetooth. But with wifi, the host is always the passive component, and the device is always the active component.