This is interesting. I don't own and iPod an do no install Apple Quicktime for any reason, so I never have the Bonjour service running on my machines, and I do not experience these across the board connection drops like everyone else is experiencing.
If everyone with this issue can report back to see if they have Apple's Bonjour service running, or else some other apps similar in scope, it would help troubleshoot the issue.
As I usually end up saying, if it is a Windows problem then most of us should be experiencing this issue - but I most certainly am not, and although there are a lot of posts about folks experiencing this issue, no offense, but face the truth - with the number of registered users here y'all are still in the minority - leading me to (still) believe that this is a problem with your machines (whether hardware or software).