Ok everybody, sorry I was gone so long. I don't know how exactly how I deleted "my music" folder, but I do know this, I was dual booting windows 7 with linux. Specifically I was testing fedora 19 beta rc4. Apparently while copying windows files over to fedora, Documents, that is, I saw what looked like shortcuts to all my other libraries in the documents folder in fedora. Well being a neat freak and suffering from ocd I panicked and deleted the "my music shortcut". Then I went and rebooted windows to make sure I was ok, but I was not. I guess this is why there is nothing in recycle bin, which was is linked to cc cleaner and cleaned every reboot anyway. Anyway I am not to worried about it I keep all my documents, music, pictures and video files on flash drives, nothing is copied to the hdd. I merely pop in usb and do whatever, save and remove drive. As for recovering my music folder I simply used my windows 8 upgrade flash drive and installed windows 8. Thanks for all your responses, you were are all very helpful. The one thing I did learn is how despite windows 7 being very stable for everyday use, a simple delete caused a firestorm, Yes I know, I do have a backup policy...If it breaks fresh install, or upgrade to windows 8.
Henry