I do appreciate all the advice.
And TBH, the reasons I ended up choosing PS3 in the end were:
1) Some Exclusives. Uncharted, Heavy Rain, Folklore etc ...
2) Im not much of a FPS gamer, especially online. I typically play RPGs and solo (been with Steam forever and still dont have any friends LOL)
In fact, I think the only shooter I play online are the Left for Dead games, and thats rarely.
Other games I was looking into were cross platform. I seen most of those typically looked a bit better on the Xbox, as most are not optimised for the PS3 but that the difference wasnt that huge either.
Maybe I made a bad choice in the end, but so far im happy with it for what I wanted it for. Im still a PC gamer at heart
But being as I have a Xbox here, I tried some of those exclusives as well. Many of the Halo games mostly.
So far, and this is just my opinion, in regards to exculsives PS3s (gameplay aside) just seem to look far better to my eyes.
The cross-platform games tend to be slightly better looking on the Xbox. I can't directly compare on this part though, just going by what thiose who have compared say.
I asked this question for advice but also learned that this is a question that appears to have no right or wrong answer. From what Ive played on the Xbox and PS3 thus far, they both seem like good systems.
From all of this, I think if there are other gamers like me who dont really care about online play, its going to be a matter of Exclusive titles.
If you want the console to double as a DVD/BluRay player ... the PS3 is really the only choice in that case..