Easier, not just prettier
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That is basically what the OP is complaining about.
You have adapt to the OS, the OS doesn't "adapt" to you.
You have to "unlearn" the tricks that you spent years learning.
But this is the same for nearly everything we use... [cue wild analogy] Like farming: we had to learn how to use tractors when moving from horse-drawn ploughs, etc.
Basic vehicle operation doesn't change every 2 or 3 years. :shock:
"Everyone is used to menus. Let's replace them with ribbons."
I find them painful to use, but since I've been using them for so long, I wouldn't be able to use the old-style Word menus anymore either.
The end result is, I am now less productive than I used to be.
I also prefer the way the "
Search" function worked in XP, to the W7 version (I'm not talking about the accuracy of the results).
You could set several filters at the same time.
You can do the same in W7, if you remember the spelling/syntax.
Is it "
Tag:" or "
Tags:"?
I blame it on the standard (IMO) MS problem; their total inability to provide any useful help, or instructions, on the use of built-in features.
The only reason I know anything about "
Search"?
I read an Ed Bott article about it!
In fact that is another thing that I've noticed about modern software (not only MS).
The "
Help" is generally useless.
You have to come to sites like this one, to have any chance of solving problems.
I'd say it's always a two-way street - the OS and the user adapt to each other over time, and ideally both get their way.

After all, every OS is one big design question...Microsoft, Apple, the various Linux distributors, they all follow their own philosophy. Nothing wrong with that, and no other way to do it either (unless you get to write your own OS).
Remember when the buzz word was "intuitive", instead of "magical"?
IMO, each generation of OS should get easier to use, not more difficult.
I'm sure this will provoke a massive outcry, but OS operation (from the user perspective) hasn't really improved since XP.
Operations that took only one or two clicks in XP (e.g. customise/personalise) took 6 or more in Vista (W7 is in the middle).
They've become prettier and more secure, but not any easier to use.